Being a cutie and extra delicate girl is helpful in getting attention from boys. That “help seeking looks in your eyes” might end up you surrounding to those “always ready to help guys”. Your work will be done at that particular time,but you will end up with nothing new to learn, to add in your life experiences.
So it’s a high time change your degree of dependency on others in every situation as you will not always be lucky to get a helping hand. Start facing everyday challenges on our own, take decisions independently. At first You will find it difficult to deal and sometimes you will end up with wrong decisions. But these life time experiences will make you a better human being to live in this cruel world.
Your over dependence on others will be annoying to your friends,siblings and life partner. Your significant other will love and enjoy your extra delicate nature for few days or months only.After that he will take this as a burden and help you out of duty only.
So how to deal with this? I am sharing a few changes to be done. But you have to start. So start small, but now!
Start with doing little little tasks on your own. If the tasks require enormous physical strength then only ask help from others. Achieving small goals independently will boost your self confidence to the sky high! (Trust me) Others will start trusting and respecting your decisions. You will feel a new spark in your everyday life. You will be much more emotionally sound than before.
Hope to see you soon.